August 10, 2007

"Barbie"

Some months back, I did a project on Barbie culture, exploring the consumptions of norms and ideals of beauty.

Do you live a life like Barbie's?
Growing up, do you idolise or wish you can be Barbie and why?

Barbie Doll – Marge Piercy
This girlchild was born as usual
And presented dolls that did pee-pee
and miniature GE stoves and irons
and wee lipsticks the colour of cherry candy.
Then in the magic of puberty, a classmate said:
You have a great big nose and fat legs.
She was healthy, tested intelligent,
Possessed strong arms and back,
Abundant sexual drive and manual dexterity.
She went to and fro apologizing,
Everyone saw a fat nose on thick legs.
She was advised to play coy,
Exhorted to come on hearty,
Exercise, diet, smile and wheedle.
Her good nature wore out
Like a fan belt,
So she cut off her nose and legs
And offered them up.
In the casket displayed on satin she lay
With the undertaker’s cosmetics painted on, a turned-up putty nose,
Dressed in a pink and white nightie.
Doesn’t she look pretty? Everyone said.
Consummation at last.
To every woman a happy ending.







August 9, 2007

Girlgems Auditions

girlgems auditions were held on 21 and 28 July at TKGS hall.
6 teams are going into the finals on 25 Aug, STAY TUNED!


The Wonders

The young and aspiring social entrepreneurs

The Wonders: Nadiah, Syafina, Syafiqah (L-R)
and Siti (not in photo)

SUPPORT US!

Photographer: 'Mentor' Peishan, ex-tkgian and AWARE volunteer

8pm at Bugis, Delifrance
BUSY WITH PROJECT!

take ONE...



August 8, 2007

TKGS celebrates National Day Celebrations with Carnival Day

National Day Celebrations cum Carnival Day on
8th August 2007


On Wednesday 8 August, the TKGian community will be celebrating National Day through community service. Every year, the school creates opportunities for the students to plan activities for the community on Carnival Day. This year, the school has merged our National Day and Carnival Day celebrations.

On 8 August, TKGians will be involved in a host of activities. They will host our guests from various community groups who will be joining us for the celebrations. At TKGS, the students believe that small acts of kindness will go a long way, especially if it comes from the heart. Community spiritedness is imbedded in the school's culture. In previous years, the school started off by showing the students how to be involved in community programmes. The perseverance of the school has paid off in that now the students are coming forward and initiating their own projects to serve the community.

Besides being involved in planning the activities, TKGians are also encouraged to support 'Be Yourself Day', a community service initiative in support of causes like AWARE ( A ssociation for W omen for A ction and RE search). TKGians will show their support for the cause by making a donation and coming to school dressed in their ethnic costumes or red and white outfits.

See latest news>>

Photos coming up!

August 5, 2007

Famous TKGian


FAMOUS TKGGians and more....
Dr Kanwaljit Soin (AWARE founder and ex-President, Ex-TKGian)
Ruby (Act3)
Felicia Chin - MediaCorp actress (softball, ex tkgs, vjc; Graduated 2000)
Jade Seah - Miss Singapore Universe 2006 runner-up and MediaCorp host (Graduated 1999)
Halimah Yacob - Member of Parliament
Suzanne Ho - ChannelNewsAsia Newscaster

Support TKGS and AWARE... BOOK A SPOT NOW!

>> To purchase ticket, email: girlgems@gmail.com
or go to TKGS at
20, Dunman Lane, Singapore 439272
For directions, see >>

Support 'The Wonders' - TKGS! Youth-for-causes


Tanjong Katong Girls' School Presents
GIRLGEMS 2007

Date: 25 August 2007, Saturday
Venue: Tanjong Katong Girls' School, TKGS Hall
Time: 6
(Doors open at 6pm)

Ticket price:
$12 - Seating
$8 - Standing

Light refreshments will be sold.
Parking fee: $2
*Limited carpark space



in aid of AWARE.





Proceeds of this fund-raising event go towards AWARE youth programmes.




For details see eTicket (click on images below)




July 25, 2007

July 20, 2007

Public Images of Women

:: Public Images of Women ::
........

Some months back, in April, I attended a drama workshop conducted by YOUTH@AWARE
here's some reflections ...


the fantastic AWARE drama workshop that I attended last Saturday from 1.30 to 5.30pm. In that room at aware centre, there are about 15 participants - from old women aged 60s to ladies in 20s - im one of the youngest. From different race, personality and background. Seriously, there's so such diversity and strong vibes in the room! The session was very thought-out and well-planned. At the outset, we were told to do a simple movement to introduce ourselve to the group. Can see some very curve and some very sharp moves, some natural and creative ones! Then we share stories we heard before (fables, stories) that had girls inside - Little Match Stick girl, Cinderalla, Nezha, Little Red Riding hood and discussed the meanings and stereotypes behind each. From there, we dramatise our story in 3 movements within 15min. My group (5 people) did the little red riding hood story and finally we had pose in a final position to capture with a static shot of story - what would it be? Not easy. That last FREEZE pose had to convey the whole meaning and convey the ESSENCE of the story(expression, emotions, facial expression) of the story. Little Red Riding hood, was it shock? or how smart the girl was to outwit the wolf? What are the critical dimensions to explore? The whole group then analyze that last frozen pose, the interplay of central characters and team together with our movements - Morphing. Very creative dramatisation among all the women, very expressive performance... we are all beginners in this! The next activity is my favourite! Browsing through women's magazines, cut, tear and pasting on paper - the themes,analyzing representations of women in those magazine, and re-creating them in our work of art - what are the messages, how women was protrayed and depicted in ads. Words describing and associated with the ads were written near the edge the ads. Media representation and what it tells us -HOW WOMEN were protrayed by the media. After which, each of us explore the 3D to 2D effect- lie down in a position that we want, a posture that best captured how we felt towards the whole session so far. Then we outline the person's body with crayons. These overlapping layers, gives new meanings and inspiration to more words and new creations. VOila! A piece of art that encapsulated our reflections, our ideas, our perceptions of HOW WE VIEW OURSELVES AS WOMEN (from our perpectives) in the inner circle...and how that differs from external representation by media and others.

Some questions to ponder:
Are we affect by these images? Are we challenging these? We then stood around our art and took turns to draw/illustrate with words what we "saw" from the visuals, or ideas or words that sprung to mind when we are looking at each other... the looks on our faces, our reaction to each word, emotions that beyond the layer, within us, the vibes conveyed from our interaction to words to dramatisation to action! The feeling of liberation...


The meanings of being, are fluid and changing. This is continously shaped and negotiated by our actions, thoughts, behaviour, emotions, values and representations of others and on ourselves. (as part of society) The notion of morphing, with our interpretations and ideals of self and others.
Then we retold our first story that we dramatise with our movements and made changes....the difference was starck. The two representation had taken new meanings, incorporated new representation. We were inspired by one another. MORPHING rethinking what a women means to us. After the illustration, we paired up to write a story on what story we can tell or share with our children next time. The group beside me had a tale of black men and make up of the gal (metaphor); the new girl i met is a vocalist - we wrote a short story 5 lines...about a blind girl who aspires to be the first president of Singapore, ostrasized by society, when she regain her sight, she went to pursue her dream. was kinnda juiced out on ideas by 5pm on sat afternoon. Interestingly, one way of seeing is another way of not seeing....Noorlinah interpreted it as, when she was blinded - shecouldn't, when she lost it, (when she regain her sight), she became.

Many interesting stories were told, with their own fusion of ideas, lovely sharing! There's one told by Noorlinah... In her mind, she travels. A girl lives in a house full of sharp objects, of glass, of knives.. In the morning, she faces and is surrrounded by sharpness. Come 9pm, she jumps into bed, below her blanket, she travels on vessels, on ships....story repeats..then ending was she grow up to be essentric and electic. Then Noors laughs as she ends her story...The story sounded nice, with rhyming words and the tone narrated by Noor sets the mood for a lovely story to be told. Much to think about the message behind it. Another story was a the black men and how they painted the girl and one day, the mask was removed.. JooH. told of the growth of a girl to adulthood, to old age..."when you were born, you were crying; when you leave the world, you laugh and others cry. Another tells of the boy who held on to the chocolate and didnt eat it along the way, while others did and had many ways to do it along the journey, while he kept it to share with his sister at the end, as promised. It was the hope that kept him alive. We had to choose a story from the whole group and dramatise in 3 moves. Coincidently, and unplanned, 2 groups - my group and another did the black men one. both group was very different in the dramatisation. VERY!
At the end of the session, each of us wrote a letter to ourself , " Dear Peishan, .." and wrote what we learn and what one say ourself. After today's workshop, I felt liberated in some sense. The representation of ideas, and interaction with this group of special women gave me strength and new perspective of things. We also ended the session with a body movement that we started - presenting a movement that best represent one self, the essence of you as a person. The session was facilitated by president of SDEA - Noorlinah (a very vibrant chinese lady) - part time teacher at Laselle, conducts classes for the prisons. Next up in may is a drama workshop that helps bonding between parents and children. Felicia volunteers at North light sch. Both with so much passion in drama. Thanks Joo Hymn for organising this wondering session. The new exco is headed by ex-AWARE president Constance Singam. see SDEA singapore.drama.educators.association >> http://www.sdea.org.sg


We then stood around our art and took turns to draw/illustrate with words what we "saw" from the visuals, or ideas or words that sprung to mind when we are looking at each other...how we had inspired each other... the looks on our faces, our reaction to each word, our imaginations, our (hidden) emotions, the layering, the diversity of women present in the room reminds me of the stages of growth (from youth - women), the vibes conveyed from our interaction to words to dramatisation to action! The feeling of liberation...

OUTSIDE ( how the world view us media representation and images) nuturer earth burden balanced life self-esteem lies glamourous fragilty body dysmorphic symdrome commodity self-care sensual sexual objects ::what we view ourselves::
connecting warm calm simple lovely true real beautiful creative capable assertive enthusiatic leader united feel hope faith tigress enigma natural spiritual powerful athlete controversial confidence choice inner happiness kaidolescope of colours dynamic vibrant positivity courage child like stoic contentment innovative enigma peace reality transforming strong and creative mind able centred will growth strength compassionate conquer multi-faceted


By PeiShan

The Spirit of TKGS








July 11, 2007

Girlgems is about YOU and everything you CAN be.

:: Girlgems ::

Background

The extent to which young women will go to achieve the unattainable goal of a body beautiful, is alarming: According to recent media reports, the number of young women suffering from eating disorders in Singapore has increased six fold since 1994, affecting younger women the most. Less than 25% of women describe themselves as beautiful and thousands are turning to cosmetic surgery. Despite being increasingly emancipated, these indicators suggest that young Singaporean women suffer from poor self-image and feel the pressure of having to conform to a certain standard of beauty.

Images of the ideal beauty are all around us in one form or another. These emphasize a narrow definition of how a woman should look and link women's appearances to their worth. It is hardly surprising that these images perpetuate the mindset that society has widely acknowledged. At the end of the day, the decision lies with us, the young women. We hope more women will take control of the situation and make the empowered choice of resisting these ideal notions of beauty.


The narrow definition of beauty offered by media images and society's mindset has left most young women walking a tightrope. As young women, let's work towards rejecting the beauty myth and reclaiming our body in an empowered way.


To this end, we are organizing a hip, fun and attractive event to promote confidence within one's self regardless of shape, size and colour which has an impact on younger women.

Concept

We have decided to name our event "Girlgems" as we believe that every girl is as unique, dazzling, sparkling and special in their own way, just like a gem.

Girlgems invites women from all walks of life to love themselves, to reaffirm their self-acceptance. Casting aside archaic notions of women as Barbie dolls, or second-class citizens, the event encourages women to be first class citizens, to embrace new and healthier role models of success and beauty.

Girlgems allows every woman to appreciate herself for what she is and what she hopes to become. It is a validation of self. It's about being comfortable with who you are and recognizing your potential to be all that you can be. It is about being true to yourself.

Girlgems is about YOU and everything you CAN be.

It is an all-female event held exclusively for youths ageing ranging from 13 to 21.This would be held on the 25th of August. Only females are allowed to participate in the competition. However, males are allowed to attend the event as a part of the audience. In this event, performing arts groups from several Secondary schools and Junior Colleges will be taking part in a competition, by performing basically anything that would promote self-esteem and confidence. They would have to form teams or participate in the solo category and perform a dance or a song.

Objectives


Through this event, we aim to positively impact on younger women in Singapore so that more women would be confident enough as themselves and not attempt to become anyone of the unhealthy media icons.


Our target is to raise $10,000 for AWARE (Association of Women for Action and Research). AWARE is a registered Charity formed in 1985 that serves to provide women with optimal opportunities to realise their full potential.


The proceeds raised through the event will go to the youth public education programmes at AWARE. The funds raised will go a long way towards developing youth programs and workshops on self-esteem/body image, and other such programmes targeted at risky youth behaviour. The youth programmes under AWARE Training Institute serve to educate and empower youths to cope with the pressures of being young women and provide them with the skills, knowledge and information to make informed and responsible decisions. The funds will also benefit the research and campaign on Body Image.


We hope that sponsors will come forward and support us in our efforts to raise awareness to the issues of positive self–esteem in younger women, whilst raising funds for a worthy cause.
If there are any sponsors who are willing to help, or any associations, companies or organisations who are willing to help with publicity, we would really appreciate it.

June 13, 2007

"GIRLGEMS" is born...!!



A group of socially-conscious and enterprising TKGS girls are preparing to raise funds for AWARE.

See Citibank-YMCA Youth for Causes 2007 for details here

More to come, stay tune!